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Olivia Lake's avatar

This was such a beautiful story and I love how the lesson of waiting to see the harvest of what you’ve sown earlier connected throughout these different parts of your life. I definitely needed to hear that and allow myself to “be a flower” in my own life and motherhood.

And how amazing that your daughter mentioned your embroidery in her questionnaire 🩷

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Kelsey Aldinger's avatar

I’m glad I’m not the only one who needs this reminder! 🫶🏼🫶🏼

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Vanessa  Leaver's avatar

If I tell her she is a flower, then I must tell myself the same truth... this was such a beautiful metaphor to share with your daughter. Loved the honesty of it

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Kelsey Aldinger's avatar

Thank you, Vanessa!

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Kim Lilley's avatar

Such a good read! I love how to stitched the stories together. I've signed my kids up for swim lessons in July and they are not looking forward to it... I'll have to use the "I'm a flower" lesson :)

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Kelsey Aldinger's avatar

May the odds be ever in your favor when swim lessons roll around. And my flowers abound! 💐🌷🌺🌸🌼

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Wendy Mengel's avatar

Oh Kelsey, I loved this so much! Your footnote cracked me up. Also, this: A pang of guilt stabs my chest. How dismissive I had been. Where else in my life have I rushed past the uncultivated disarray of green, only to stop and take notice once brighter colors burst forth? How often do I hurry through growth and only stop to appreciate proficiency? --SO good. I'll be thinking about this for a while!

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Kelsey Aldinger's avatar

Thank you for the kind words, Wendy!

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Erin Mount's avatar

This was SO good, Kelsey! And your footnote made me lol.

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Kelsey Aldinger's avatar

Thank you, Erin!

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Tabitha's avatar

"How often do I hurry through growth and only stop to appreciate proficiency?" Oof, that line got me. I love this post!

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Kelsey Aldinger's avatar

Thank you so much! Glad I’m not the only one who needs that reminder.

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Lindsay Fauver's avatar

You’re doing such good work, mama!

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Kelsey Aldinger's avatar

Thank you!

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