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I can only dream of the attention spans she’ll be capable of at those ages 🤣 but yes, so bittersweet!

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Oy, I feel you on nursing through the colicky baby with ties… I thought it would be easier 2nd time around because we knew more, but was still really rough and more genetic issues than the first. 🤦‍♀️ 11 & 7 now. My heart goes out to those who have lived through it.💜

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Oh my gosh yes! I can so easily put myself back in those early days when NOTHING helped and she screamed for 5 months straight. I have a soft spot in my heart for moms in the same spot. That’s a good reminder about knowing better not always equating to having a better experience, though. If I ever get the chance to breast feed again, I’ve unconsciously made this checklist in my head of all the things I’ll do differently and I need to remember that won’t necessarily equate to an easier experience because every kid is different!

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This hits home! And rest assured, it gets easier and easier. My boys are now 8.5 and 5, and the self-sufficiency they’re capable of would have made my brain explode three years ago 🤯 it’s certainly a bittersweet privilege, though!

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